<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Article on MarkJacobsen.net</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/tags/article/</link><description>Recent content in Article on MarkJacobsen.net</description><generator>Hugo -- gohugo.io</generator><language>en-us</language><lastBuildDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2019 02:36:17 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://test.markjacobsen.net/tags/article/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>How to Retire Forever on a Fixed Chunk of Money</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2019/02/how-to-retire-forever-on-a-fixed-chunk-of-money/</link><pubDate>Wed, 06 Feb 2019 02:36:17 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2019/02/how-to-retire-forever-on-a-fixed-chunk-of-money/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;It’s at least worth considering.&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;The absolute _key _to success in early retirement, and indeed most areas of life, is to get the big picture approximately right and not sweat the small stuff. And design the big picture with a generous **&lt;a href="http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2011/10/17/its-all-about-the-safety-margin/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Safety Margin&lt;/a&gt;, **which allow lots of slop and mistakes in your original forecasts and allows you to still come out with a surplus.&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2018/11/29/how-to-retire-forever-on-a-fixed-chunk-of-money/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;How to Retire Forever on a Fixed Chunk of Money&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>A Day In The Life of my Supposedly Frugal Stomach</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/06/a-day-in-the-life-of-my-supposedly-frugal-stomach/</link><pubDate>Tue, 05 Jun 2018 12:24:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/06/a-day-in-the-life-of-my-supposedly-frugal-stomach/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Another good post by Mr Money Mustache. Probably the biggest thing that jumped out at me was this…&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;A cost difference of &lt;strong&gt;just $1.50 per person per meal&lt;/strong&gt;, multiplied over a four-person family’s 372 meals per month makes a difference of** $558 per month, or about $96,000 per decade** after compounding.&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Which, even if you don’t compound is around $65,000 in a decade.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2018/05/15/a-day-in-the-life-of-my-supposedly-frugal-stomach/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;A Day In The Life of my Supposedly Frugal Stomach&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Stop Using WhatsApp If You Care About Your Privacy</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/05/stop-using-whatsapp-if-you-care-about-your-privacy/</link><pubDate>Thu, 10 May 2018 14:46:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/05/stop-using-whatsapp-if-you-care-about-your-privacy/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Yet another reason to use [Signal][1]…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lifehacker.com/stop-using-whatsapp-if-you-care-about-your-privacy-1825719172" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Stop Using WhatsApp If You Care About Your Privacy&lt;/a&gt;[1]: &lt;a class="link" href="http://markjacobsen.net/signal/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
 &gt;http://markjacobsen.net/signal/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Say Yes to Your Spouse</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/say-yes-to-your-spouse/</link><pubDate>Thu, 26 Apr 2018 14:16:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/say-yes-to-your-spouse/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;I could probably stand to work on this, but “Your goal should be to say “Yes” as often as you can”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Or, from what I understand about improve it’s always, “yes, and”.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://foundationscoachingnc.com/keys-to-your-happily-ever-after-marriage-say-yes-to-your-spouse/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Keys to Your “Happily Ever After” Marriage: Say Yes to Your Spouse&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Don’t Give Away Historic Details About Yourself</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/dont-give-away-historic-details-about-yourself/</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Apr 2018 14:17:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/dont-give-away-historic-details-about-yourself/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Please be safe out there&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;Social media sites are littered with seemingly innocuous little quizzes, games and surveys urging people to reminisce about specific topics, such as “What was your first job,” or “What was your first car?” The problem with participating in these informal surveys is that in doing so you may be inadvertently giving away the answers to “secret questions” that can be used to unlock access to a host of your online identities and accounts.&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://krebsonsecurity.com/2018/04/dont-give-away-historic-details-about-yourself/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Don’t Give Away Historic Details About Yourself — Krebs on Security&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>How to Delete Your Phone Contacts from Facebook</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/how-to-delete-your-phone-contacts-from-facebook/</link><pubDate>Mon, 23 Apr 2018 14:36:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/how-to-delete-your-phone-contacts-from-facebook/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;If you’re not going to delete your FB account completely then at least look into how to not throw your friends under the bus.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lifehacker.com/how-to-delete-your-phone-contacts-from-facebook-1824074511" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;How to Delete Your Phone Contacts from Facebook&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Put One Person in Charge of Each Task When Getting Ready to Travel</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/put-one-person-in-charge-of-each-task-when-getting-ready-to-travel/</link><pubDate>Tue, 17 Apr 2018 15:03:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/put-one-person-in-charge-of-each-task-when-getting-ready-to-travel/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Personally, I think this is a great idea for just about anything…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://offspring.lifehacker.com/put-one-person-in-charge-of-each-task-when-getting-read-1825000215" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Put One Person in Charge of Each Task When Getting Ready to Travel&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Beyond #DeleteFacebook: More Thoughts on Embracing the Social Internet Over Social Media</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/beyond-deletefacebook-more-thoughts-on-embracing-the-social-internet-over-social-media/</link><pubDate>Mon, 16 Apr 2018 11:59:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/beyond-deletefacebook-more-thoughts-on-embracing-the-social-internet-over-social-media/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;I “like” 🙂 almost all the ideas here…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://calnewport.com/blog/2018/03/25/beyond-deletefacebook-more-thoughts-on-embracing-the-social-internet-over-social-media/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Beyond #DeleteFacebook: More Thoughts on Embracing the Social Internet Over Social Media&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Lean or Agile? Why choose when you can have it all? The power of applying Agile with a Lean mindset</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/lean-or-agile-why-choose-when-you-can-have-it-all-the-power-of-applying-agile-with-a-lean-mindset/</link><pubDate>Fri, 13 Apr 2018 11:15:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/lean-or-agile-why-choose-when-you-can-have-it-all-the-power-of-applying-agile-with-a-lean-mindset/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Interesting article. I have the book queued up for perusal. If you have a subscription to Safari Books you can read it too!&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/lean-agile-why-choose-when-you-can-have-all-power-medina-d%C3%ADaz/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Lean or Agile? Why choose when you can have it all? The power of applying Agile with a Lean mindset&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>The Real History of Daylight Saving Time</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/the-real-history-of-daylight-saving-time/</link><pubDate>Wed, 11 Apr 2018 13:32:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/the-real-history-of-daylight-saving-time/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;And now you know…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lifehacker.com/the-real-history-of-daylight-saving-time-1823611526" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;The Real History of Daylight Saving Time&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Still the Most Important Piece of Financial Advice You’ll Ever Receive</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/still-the-most-important-piece-of-financial-advice-youll-ever-receive/</link><pubDate>Thu, 05 Apr 2018 11:37:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/still-the-most-important-piece-of-financial-advice-youll-ever-receive/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;“Of course, simply spending less may not be the solution to every financial problem that we encounter. But it is the solution to most.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.becomingminimalist.com/important-financial-advice/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Still the Most Important Piece of Financial Advice You’ll Ever Receive&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Telling Our Kids To “Walk Up, Not Out” Isn’t Just Wrong, It’s Incredibly Dangerous</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/telling-our-kids-to-walk-up-not-out-isnt-just-wrong-its-incredibly-dangerous/</link><pubDate>Wed, 04 Apr 2018 12:35:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/telling-our-kids-to-walk-up-not-out-isnt-just-wrong-its-incredibly-dangerous/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Absolutely love every bit of this. Just a few nuggets…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“it isn’t an either/or proposition”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Walking out is a powerful political statement being made by students too young to vote, but old enough to have performed multiple lockdown drills in their school.”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“insinuating that children are responsible for mass gun violence because they simply don’t take the time to “befriend the lonely kid” is not only victim-blaming, it’s dangerous”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;strong&gt;“Walk up to the mirror, look yourself in the eyes, and tell yourself that you’ve done everything you can to prevent the next mass shooting. And if you can’t, stop looking to the students to save themselves and start looking at yourself.”&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.romper.com/p/telling-kids-to-walk-up-not-out-isnt-just-wrong-its-incredibly-dangerous-8499986" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Telling Our Kids To “Walk Up, Not Out” Isn’t Just Wrong, It’s Incredibly Dangerous&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>The Value of Fasting (from Anything). And How to Get Started.</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/the-value-of-fasting-from-anything-and-how-to-get-started/</link><pubDate>Tue, 03 Apr 2018 11:16:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/04/the-value-of-fasting-from-anything-and-how-to-get-started/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Have been trying this in various forms since around the beginning of this year. Thus far I’ve had success with abstaining from alcohol for almost 100 days, and intermittent fasting off and on. Haven’t had anything stick, but it does feel good to know that sometimes you can maintain some of that old self control… at least for a while.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.becomingminimalist.com/fasting/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;The Value of Fasting (from Anything). And How to Get Started.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>401(k)s Aren’t ‘Bullshit’</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/401ks-arent-bullshit/</link><pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2018 10:36:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/401ks-arent-bullshit/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;There’s a lot of truth here, just as there is in [Oh Damn, 401(k)s Aren’t Magic][1] …&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://twocents.lifehacker.com/401-k-s-arent-bullshit-1823625315" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;401(k)s Aren’t ‘Bullshit’&lt;/a&gt;[1]: &lt;a class="link" href="http://markjacobsen.net/2018/02/oh-damn-401ks-arent-magic/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
 &gt;http://markjacobsen.net/2018/02/oh-damn-401ks-arent-magic/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Feed Your Kid Dinner at 3 P.M.</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/feed-your-kid-dinner-at-3-p-m/</link><pubDate>Thu, 22 Mar 2018 14:39:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/feed-your-kid-dinner-at-3-p-m/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Seems like an interesting concept if you can pull it off. My only reservation is that it can cut down on “family time”, but if it means better bedtime routines then it may just be worth it.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://offspring.lifehacker.com/feed-your-kid-dinner-at-3-p-m-1823555290" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Feed Your Kid Dinner at 3 P.M.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Porn is not the worst thing on obscure social media sites</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/porn-is-not-the-worst-thing-on-obscure-social-media-sites/</link><pubDate>Wed, 21 Mar 2018 11:59:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/porn-is-not-the-worst-thing-on-obscure-social-media-sites/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Love the reminder why my kids aren’t getting a phone or going on social media any time soon (if ever)…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;“Puberty is harrowing enough in physical form, asking a child to also manage an online ego is like asking them to thread a needle while the plane is going down”&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://medium.com/@anastasiabasilcunningham/porn-is-not-the-worst-thing-on-musical-ly-5df07ab842af?utm_content=bufferd25ce&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Porn is not the worst thing on Musical.ly. – Anastasia Basil – Medium&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>How to Achieve Work-Life Balance in 5 Steps</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/how-to-achieve-work-life-balance-in-5-steps/</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 Mar 2018 10:26:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/how-to-achieve-work-life-balance-in-5-steps/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;If you don’t want to [read the entire article][1] because Time’s website is so overrun with ads, here’s the summary…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Everything is not equally important. Do fewer things and do them well.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Decide what your values are — and which ones take precedence.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Do the things that get disproportionate results.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Focus on the things only you can do.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Do the important things which must be done now.[1]: &lt;a class="link" href="http://time.com/43808/how-to-achieve-work-life-balance-in-5-steps/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
 &gt;http://time.com/43808/how-to-achieve-work-life-balance-in-5-steps/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;</description></item><item><title>The top business-killing habit: silos</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/the-top-business-killing-habit-silos/</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 Mar 2018 13:57:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/the-top-business-killing-habit-silos/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;And, this is applicable for more than just the sales and marketing teams if you ask me…&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;“Put everyone on as few systems as possible, discourage fiefdoms of data, and you’ll win far more than you’ll lose.”&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;[Read the full article here][1][1]: &lt;a class="link" href="http://www.christopherspenn.com/2014/04/the-top-business-killing-habit-silos/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
 &gt;http://www.christopherspenn.com/2014/04/the-top-business-killing-habit-silos/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>This Is How You Speed Up Your Morning Routine (and Get More Sleep) #1aDay</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/speed-morning-routine-get-sleep-1aday/</link><pubDate>Mon, 12 Mar 2018 14:42:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/speed-morning-routine-get-sleep-1aday/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Here’s the rundown, but read the whole thing…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Figure Out When to Go to Bed Based on When You Have to Get Up&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Set Your Clothes Out&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t Check Facebook&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Get a Quick Breakfast&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Eat Lunch at Work&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Shower the Night Before&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Brew Your Own Coffee&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.wisebread.com/this-is-how-you-speed-up-your-morning-routine-and-get-more-sleep" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;This Is How You Speed Up Your Morning Routine (and Get More Sleep)&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Announce the Reason You Are About to Look at Your Phone</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/announce-reason-look-phone/</link><pubDate>Fri, 09 Mar 2018 16:11:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/announce-reason-look-phone/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;I kind of like this idea. Even if you just announce it to yourself I think it’s a great mindful practice.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lifehacker.com/announce-the-reason-you-are-about-to-look-at-your-phone-1823194762?utm_content=buffer43b27&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Announce the Reason You Are About to Look at Your Phone&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Stop Asking Your Kid About Their Day</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/stop-asking-kid-day/</link><pubDate>Tue, 06 Mar 2018 16:24:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/stop-asking-kid-day/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;It probably wouldn’t hurt for me to remember this. My goal is for them to want to talk to me when there really are important things weighing on their minds, and I know I did and still do tend to shut down just as described when treated the same way.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://offspring.lifehacker.com/stop-asking-your-kid-about-their-day-1822416445?utm_content=bufferf957d&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Stop Asking Your Kid About Their Day&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Alexander Hamilton’s Deep Advice</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/alexander-hamiltons-deep-advice/</link><pubDate>Mon, 05 Mar 2018 14:09:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/alexander-hamiltons-deep-advice/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;It may seem ridged but I like the concept of how this guidance would help instill discipline while also establishing a routine with good intentions. Note also that it doesn’t say there is no possibility of deviation, but that changes should be highly considered before hand – perhaps by talking it through with someone more experienced and wise.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://calnewport.com/blog/2018/01/29/alexander-hamiltons-deep-advice/?utm_content=buffer251af&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Alexander Hamilton’s Deep Advice – Study Hacks – Cal Newport&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>The Confidence Gap</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/the-confidence-gap/</link><pubDate>Fri, 02 Mar 2018 12:17:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/03/the-confidence-gap/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Job #1. Try to instill confidence in my girls…&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;Success, it turns out, correlates just as closely with confidence as it does with competence.&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2014/05/the-confidence-gap/359815/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>5% Less</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/5-less/</link><pubDate>Wed, 28 Feb 2018 11:32:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/5-less/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Sometimes the solution isn’t to 10x everything, or maybe 5% less will make you 10% happier 🙂&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;[Read the full article here][1][1]: &lt;a class="link" href="https://bemorewithless.com/5percent/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
 &gt;https://bemorewithless.com/5percent/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>How to Run a Meeting Like Google</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/run-meeting-like-google/</link><pubDate>Tue, 27 Feb 2018 14:43:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/run-meeting-like-google/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Lots of good ideas here on ways to run good meetings, and not just Google centric.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;[Read the full article here][1][1]: &lt;a class="link" href="https://www.getminute.com/how-to-run-a-meeting-like-google-apple-amazon-and-facebook/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
 &gt;https://www.getminute.com/how-to-run-a-meeting-like-google-apple-amazon-and-facebook/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>3 Things I Wish Parents – and Teens – Knew About Pot</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/3-things-wish-parents-teens-knew-pot/</link><pubDate>Fri, 23 Feb 2018 12:18:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/3-things-wish-parents-teens-knew-pot/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;You learn something new everyday. And naive little me thought marijuana was just marijuana.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://health.usnews.com/wellness/for-parents/articles/2018-01-24/3-things-i-wish-parents-and-teens-knew-about-pot" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;3 Things I Wish Parents – and Teens – Knew About Pot&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>The secret to learning how to do anything</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/secret-learning-anything/</link><pubDate>Thu, 22 Feb 2018 15:05:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/secret-learning-anything/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Having a problem to solve is always a good way to really learn anything.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.christopherspenn.com/2014/04/the-secret-to-learning-how-to-do-anything/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>How to Teach Young Kids Budgeting Habits Early On</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/teach-young-kids-budgeting-habits-early/</link><pubDate>Wed, 21 Feb 2018 12:34:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/teach-young-kids-budgeting-habits-early/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;From early childhood to the teen years this does a good job of laying out a plan you may want to follow…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;[Read the full article here][1][1]: &lt;a class="link" href="https://lifehacker.com/how-to-teach-young-kids-budgeting-habits-early-on-1528970036" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
 &gt;https://lifehacker.com/how-to-teach-young-kids-budgeting-habits-early-on-1528970036&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>How to Defeat Bad Breath Once and For All</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/defeat-bad-breath/</link><pubDate>Tue, 20 Feb 2018 16:57:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/defeat-bad-breath/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;A rather extensive post, but worthwhile read jic 🙂&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/1nd3gq8" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>The Best Time of Day to Do Just About Anything</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/best-time-day-just-anything/</link><pubDate>Mon, 19 Feb 2018 12:38:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/best-time-day-just-anything/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lifehacker.com/the-best-time-of-day-to-do-just-about-anything-1570979425" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article&lt;/a&gt; for details, but these are the suggestions…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;7 AM: Do Some Creative Thinking&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;8 AM (or 1 PM): Book a Doctor’s Appointment&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;9 AM: Go to the Post Office&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;9 AM: Schedule a Job Interview&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;9 AM: Search for an Apartment&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;9:30 AM: Drink Your Coffee&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;2 PM: Take a Nap&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;2 PM: Send Email&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;2 PM: Send Email&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;6 PM: Exercise&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;8 PM: Shop for Groceries&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;10 PM: Go to Sleep&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;10:30 PM: Start and End eBay Listings&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;</description></item><item><title>The frightening thing you learn when you quit the 9 to 5</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/frightening-thing-learn-quit-9-5/</link><pubDate>Thu, 15 Feb 2018 15:40:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/frightening-thing-learn-quit-9-5/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;This is quiet the manifesto, but includes lots to ponder…&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;we’re born as subjects to the authoritarian figures of our parents, and from there we’re funneled straight into the education system, which steers us directly toward the employee workforce. In each of these systems, we are subordinates whose work is likely to be unrelated to our own values, on schedules that are always determined by someone else.&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;… though he appears to have returned to the 9-5 (at least for now), the sentiment is still good.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.raptitude.com/2014/04/quitting-the-9-to-5/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>All Code Is Bad, So Don’t Stress If Yours Sucks</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/code-bad-dont-stress-sucks/</link><pubDate>Wed, 14 Feb 2018 14:38:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/code-bad-dont-stress-sucks/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Some funny for my developer friends. If you don’t program for a living, just ignore everything in these articles because you will become convinced the world will implode shortly. On the other hand, if you do program I’m pretty sure you’ll love this…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.stilldrinking.org/programming-sucks" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;, or… &lt;a href="https://lifehacker.com/all-code-is-bad-so-dont-stress-if-yours-sucks-1569821801" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;check out the summary&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Safety is an Expensive Illusion</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/safety-expensive-illusion/</link><pubDate>Mon, 12 Feb 2018 12:37:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/safety-expensive-illusion/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;If you haven’t heard of Mr Money Mustache yet, let me introduce you…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2012/06/07/safety-is-an-expensive-illusion/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Oh Damn, 401(k)s Aren’t Magic</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/oh-damn-401ks-arent-magic/</link><pubDate>Tue, 06 Feb 2018 13:36:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/oh-damn-401ks-arent-magic/</guid><description>
 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;“All of this has always ignored the mathematical fact that scrimping and saving and investing wisely will not save you if you don’t have enough money in the first place. If you are a low-wage worker who cuts your expenses to the bone in order to sock away $500 a year, on which you earn 8%, you will still not go more than a year in retirement without starving to death. The math just doesn’t work. We need to actually give people more money. This is common sense, but is anathema to the sort of magical thinking that says that the root of all poverty is bad decisions by the poor.”&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Read the full article: &lt;a href="https://splinternews.com/oh-damn-401-k-s-arent-magic-1821807209?utm_content=buffer18534&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Oh Damn, 401(k)s Aren’t Magic&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Why You Should Let Kids Fight</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/let-kids-fight/</link><pubDate>Mon, 05 Feb 2018 15:34:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/02/let-kids-fight/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Interesting, and yet hard to do sometimes. My gut says that generally speaking husbands are more apt to do this, but maybe that’s just speaking from personal experience 🙂&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://offspring.lifehacker.com/why-you-should-let-kids-fight-1821659356?utm_content=bufferd8abd&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Why You Should Let Kids Fight&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>How to Make a Marriage Work</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/make-marriage-work/</link><pubDate>Wed, 31 Jan 2018 20:07:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/make-marriage-work/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Always good to have a reminder to put that key relationship first…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://bit.ly/1o8GBug" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Why Motivating Others Starts With Using The Right Language</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/motivating-others-starts-using-right-language/</link><pubDate>Thu, 25 Jan 2018 14:06:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/motivating-others-starts-using-right-language/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;I’ve loved this since I read it. “I intend to”, “I just did”, and “I have been doing” are wonderful places to be, but take some time to get to. Still, like the article points out the leap from asking permission to stating your intent is probably the most crucial and beneficial.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://99u.com/articles/25567/why-motivating-others-starts-with-using-the-right-language" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>These 10 Simple Things You Do Are Making Your Marriage Last, Even Though You’re Not Aware Of It</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/10-simple-things-making-marriage-last-even-though-youre-not-aware/</link><pubDate>Wed, 17 Jan 2018 13:36:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/10-simple-things-making-marriage-last-even-though-youre-not-aware/</guid><description>
 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;A happy, healthy, and lasting marriage is the goal of every couple. We have all heard that half of all marriages end in divorce, and nobody wants their marriage to be another statistic.&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The list is below, but you can &lt;a href="http://ift.tt/1mkAHlg" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Kiss&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Express Gratitude&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Touch Each Other&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Talk&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Go on Date Nights&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Fight&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Plan Things&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Do Nice Things&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Laugh&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Grow Together&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;</description></item><item><title>Scary Chip Flaws Raise Spectre of Meltdown — Krebs on Security</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/scary-chip-flaws-raise-spectre-meltdown-krebs-security/</link><pubDate>Thu, 11 Jan 2018 14:10:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/scary-chip-flaws-raise-spectre-meltdown-krebs-security/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Please be sure to update/patch every device you have. On most Windows machines, you should be able to do a manual reboot (Start -&amp;gt; Power -&amp;gt; Restart) and have the updates applied. On iOS you want to go to Settings -&amp;gt; General -&amp;gt; Software Update&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://krebsonsecurity.com/2018/01/scary-chip-flaws-raise-spectre-of-meltdown/?utm_content=buffer5c04c&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Scary Chip Flaws Raise Spectre of Meltdown — Krebs on Security&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Facebook Makes You Sad, So Try Using It Less</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/facebook-makes-sad-try-using-less/</link><pubDate>Wed, 10 Jan 2018 18:01:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/facebook-makes-sad-try-using-less/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;A Facebook slam… on Facebook! Expect another FB post coming up soon. In the mean time, the best way to reach me is in person, via my blog, or the messaging platform of your choice.&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;“Scrolling through your news feed is distracting and depressing”&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://vitals.lifehacker.com/facebook-makes-you-sad-so-try-using-it-less-1821341334?utm_content=buffer6ee3d&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Facebook Makes You Sad, So Try Using It Less&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>White Women Keep Fucking Us Over</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/white-women-keep-fucking-us/</link><pubDate>Mon, 08 Jan 2018 18:49:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/white-women-keep-fucking-us/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Interesting stats&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://theslot.jezebel.com/white-women-keep-fucking-us-over-1821250590?utm_content=buffer9e539&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;White Women Keep Fucking Us Over&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>16 Small Habits That Could Seriously Improve Your Life Within A Year</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/16-small-habits-seriously-improve-life-within-year/</link><pubDate>Fri, 05 Jan 2018 16:09:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/16-small-habits-seriously-improve-life-within-year/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Not a huge fan of sharing things that come off BuzzFeed, but the list is decent and doesn’t require you to click next for each one.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Here’s the list, but click through below for the detail:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Try reading for a set amount of time each day.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Practice swapping ‘sorry’ for ‘thank you’ when the situation is right.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t just put things down, put them away.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;And do your dishes every single day.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;If something’s going to take you less than two minutes, just do it then and there.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Try to go to bed and get up at similar times each day.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Actually start flossing your teeth every day.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Put all of your spare change into a jar for an entire year.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Make a plan for the following day before you go to bed at night.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Practice a new kind of handwriting, like cursive or calligraphy.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Learn three words in a new language every day.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Get into the habit of writing in a journal daily.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Run for as long as you can…and then run again the next day, and the next.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Make your bed every morning before you leave the house.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Add new and healthy foods to your diet rather than focusing on removing other food groups.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;And try meditating, starting with just five minutes a day.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.buzzfeed.com/gyanyankovich/new-habits-life-improvement-skills?utm_content=buffer10955&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;16 Small Habits That Could Seriously Improve Your Life Within A Year&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Work Won’t Remember That Weekend You Didn’t Give It. Friends Will.</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/work-wont-remember-weekend-didnt-give-friends-will/</link><pubDate>Thu, 04 Jan 2018 11:30:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/work-wont-remember-weekend-didnt-give-friends-will/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://ift.tt/1ilewZQ" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt; but this was my main takeaway…&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;I worked weekends on many occasions. One weekend a good friend from university was coming to New York on the way to a business trip in Chicago. He was only coming to see me. But IBM had asked me to work that weekend. I struggled to choose between them, trying to work out if I could do both. I couldn’t. So I told my employer I could not work. Dwin and I had a great weekend exploring the city. He is the godfather to my daughter and we see each other regularly. &lt;strong&gt;IBM does not remember that I did not work that weekend. Dwin would always have.&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;</description></item><item><title>The $100k Question: How to Ask for &amp; Get What You Want</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/100k-question-ask-get-want/</link><pubDate>Tue, 02 Jan 2018 11:30:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2018/01/100k-question-ask-get-want/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Here’s something I hope to practice even more in 2018. Maybe you can too.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://liveyourlegend.net/the-100k-question/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Man Asks Mike Rowe for “Life Advice”</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/man-asks-mike-rowe-life-advice/</link><pubDate>Sun, 31 Dec 2017 11:59:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/man-asks-mike-rowe-life-advice/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Still as applicable now as it was then…&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;Many people today resent the suggestion that they’re in charge of the way they feel. But trust me. Those people are mistaken.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://toprightnews.com/man-asks-mike-rowe-for-life-advice-his-response-is-the-best-thing-youll-read-today/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;</description></item><item><title>Former Facebook exec feels ‘tremendous guilt’ for what he helped make</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/former-facebook-exec-feels-tremendous-guilt-helped-make/</link><pubDate>Fri, 29 Dec 2017 11:30:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/former-facebook-exec-feels-tremendous-guilt-helped-make/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Interesting how much more I’m seeing people in the tech sector getting off of or massively limiting their amount of time on social networks. There does seem to be a place for the concept, but I’d rather see an open spec like email whereby different groups could host a “group”, but then individuals could log into one app on their phone or computer and have very targeted settings for what they want. I guess an argument could be made that email fills almost that exact role…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.businessinsider.com/former-facebook-exec-chamath-palihapitiya-social-media-damaging-society-2017-12?utm_content=buffercbb54&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Former Facebook exec feels ‘tremendous guilt’ for what he helped make&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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</description></item><item><title>Yelling at Kids can be Just as Harmful as Spanking</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/yelling-kids-can-just-harmful-spanking/</link><pubDate>Thu, 28 Dec 2017 11:30:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/yelling-kids-can-just-harmful-spanking/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img decoding="async" src="http://ift.tt/YTWmf8" /&gt;Do I believe we should or can never yell? No. But it’s worth being mindful of when and why, and that there’s often a better way…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://ift.tt/YTWnzE" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>The Only Rules You Need to Know</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/rules-need-know/</link><pubDate>Wed, 27 Dec 2017 11:30:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/rules-need-know/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Another oldie but goodie…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;The 4/64 Rule (80/20 of the 80/20)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;The 1000 Hour Rule (Good enough to be great, but not the best)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;The 30/150/Millions Rule (know/gossip/stories)&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://jamesaltucher.com/2014/06/the-only-rules-you-need-to-know/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Taking a Meeting – The Right Way and the Wrong Way</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/taking-meeting-right-way-wrong-way/</link><pubDate>Sat, 23 Dec 2017 11:30:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/taking-meeting-right-way-wrong-way/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;img decoding="async" src="http://ift.tt/1vr91Pw" /&gt;It’s worth listening to successful people…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://ift.tt/1vum5Uo" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>10 Regrets You Can Avoid</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/10-regrets-can-avoid/</link><pubDate>Fri, 22 Dec 2017 12:21:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/10-regrets-can-avoid/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Here’s the list, but please &lt;a href="https://jamesaltucher.com/2014/06/10-regrets-you-can-avoid/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt; read the full article&lt;/a&gt; for additional detail/context…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t buy things&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t fall in love with someone that is in love with someone else&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t try to please people&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Run, don’t walk&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t make promises you can’t keep&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t steal paperclips from the office&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t wait for them to say yes&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t do anything you don’t want to do&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t consume bad things&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Don’t time travel into the past&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Again, here’s the [full article][1].[1]: &lt;a class="link" href="https://jamesaltucher.com/2014/06/10-regrets-you-can-avoid/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"
 &gt;https://jamesaltucher.com/2014/06/10-regrets-you-can-avoid/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>How to Survive Deadly Black Ice On Winter Roads</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/survive-deadly-black-ice-winter-roads/</link><pubDate>Tue, 19 Dec 2017 13:20:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/survive-deadly-black-ice-winter-roads/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Please read! Especially for my friends in or visiting the great white north…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lifehacker.com/how-to-survive-deadly-black-ice-on-winter-roads-1821258841?utm_content=buffer6e136&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;How to Survive Deadly Black Ice On Winter Roads&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>The Essence of Fatherhood: 6 Simple Lessons</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/essence-fatherhood-6-simple-lessons/</link><pubDate>Mon, 18 Dec 2017 14:56:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/essence-fatherhood-6-simple-lessons/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Having been doing this for 10 years there’s lots of truth here…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Your first job is to love them&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Your example is more important than your words&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;A hug is more powerful than punishment&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Trust them&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Let them be who they’re going to be&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Read with them&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://zenhabits.net/fatherhood/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>18 Things People With Good Social Skills Never Do</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/18-things-people-good-social-skills-never/</link><pubDate>Sun, 17 Dec 2017 11:53:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/18-things-people-good-social-skills-never/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Seems like a worthwhile reminder, especially around the holidays…&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ol&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Let a Good Deed Go Unpaid&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Forget a Name&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Interrupt&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Forget to Check In and Out&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Let Your Appearance Go&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Raise Your Voice&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Get Too Excited or Angry&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Let Yourself Get Walked On&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Swear in Front of People Not Your Age&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Be a Party Pooper&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Leave Someone Out&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Blurt Out Something Hurtful&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Fight Immaturely&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Laugh at Others’ Expense&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Get Caught Without a Clean Joke&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Upset the Apple Cart&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Ignore People&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Never Get Caught Without an Ice-Breaker&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ol&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.wisebread.com/18-things-people-with-good-social-skills-never-do" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>The scary truth about what’s hurting our kids</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/scary-truth-whats-hurting-kids/</link><pubDate>Mon, 11 Dec 2017 13:19:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/scary-truth-whats-hurting-kids/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;This article makes me glad we haven’t given into giving the kids their own tablets and esp not a phone. How many years can we keep it up? Another reminder…&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href="https://www.yourmodernfamily.com/scary-truth-whats-hurting-kids/?utm_content=buffercf4b5&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;The scary truth about what’s hurting our kids&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Warren Buffett’s Best Money Advice</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/warren-buffetts-best-money-advice/</link><pubDate>Sun, 10 Dec 2017 22:12:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/warren-buffetts-best-money-advice/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Here’s some of Buffett’s best money advice.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://ift.tt/V2qPFI" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>25 Unnecessary Wastes of Money You Don’t Think About</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/25-unnecessary-wastes-money-dont-think/</link><pubDate>Thu, 07 Dec 2017 00:06:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/25-unnecessary-wastes-money-dont-think/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Another oldie but goodie, and still largely applicable.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.lifehack.org/articles/money/25-unnecessary-wastes-money-you-dont-think-about.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Turns Out the Nearly $90,000,000 Donation to Prove the NFL Cares About Social Justice Is Bullshit</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/turns-nearly-90000000-donation-prove-nfl-cares-social-justice-bullshit/</link><pubDate>Tue, 05 Dec 2017 15:54:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/turns-nearly-90000000-donation-prove-nfl-cares-social-justice-bullshit/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Yeah, I think I’m done with the NFL.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://www.theroot.com/turns-out-the-nearly-90-000-000-donation-to-prove-the-1820913969?utm_content=buffer31e3c&amp;utm_medium=social&amp;utm_source=facebook.com&amp;utm_campaign=buffer" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Turns Out the Nearly $90,000,000 Donation to Prove the NFL Cares About Social Justice Is Bullshit&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Why You Shouldn’t Use Your Lender’s Biweekly Mortgage Payment Scheme</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/why-you-shouldnt-use-your-lenders-biweekly-mortgage-payment-scheme/</link><pubDate>Mon, 04 Dec 2017 11:24:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/why-you-shouldnt-use-your-lenders-biweekly-mortgage-payment-scheme/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Paying your mortgage every two weeks instead of monthly could save you tons of money in interest and shave years off your mortgage. However, if your lender offers a payment plan for doing this, you should probably skip it and set it up yourself. Here’s why.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://lifehacker.com/why-you-shouldnt-use-your-lenders-biweekly-mortgage-pay-1641264461" target="_blank"&gt;Read the full article here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Dear Young Men</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/dear-young-men/</link><pubDate>Sun, 03 Dec 2017 12:33:10 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/12/dear-young-men/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;I read this article way back in 2014 and found it in my blog’s “drafts” folder as I had obviously meant to share it back then. Anyway, much of what the writer describes is as applicable now as it was back then. If you have young boys at home, maybe you’ll consider sharing this at the appropriate time.&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;blockquote&gt;
 &lt;p&gt;“men need to understand as early in their lives as possible that men have a long history of getting their way for no good reason. This advantage comes, of course, at the expense of fellow human beings, and we need to learn to be aware of it and eliminate it wherever we see it.”&lt;/p&gt;

 &lt;/blockquote&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.raptitude.com/2014/09/dear-young-men/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;Dear Young Men&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Amor Fati</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/11/amor-fati/</link><pubDate>Sat, 18 Nov 2017 11:28:57 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/11/amor-fati/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;I really like this post on &lt;a href="https://dailystoic.com/stoic-response-bad-news/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"&gt;A Stoic Response to Bad News&lt;/a&gt;, but just wanted to call out the philosophy of “amor fati”… which if truth be told I could stand to implement more often. Anyway, what does “amor fati” mean?&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;ul&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Love your fate&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;With it you feel that everything happens for a purpose, and that it is up to you to make this purpose something positive and active.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Do not seek for things to happen the way you want them to; rather, wish that what happens happen the way it happens: then you will be happy.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;li&gt;Treating each and every moment—no matter how challenging—as something to be embraced, not avoided. To not only be okay with it, but love it and be better for it.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;</description></item><item><title>How product managers and engineers at Asana develop great relationships</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/11/how-product-managers-and-engineers-at-asana-develop-great-relationships/</link><pubDate>Thu, 02 Nov 2017 22:00:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/11/how-product-managers-and-engineers-at-asana-develop-great-relationships/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;“PMs own the problems and Engineers own the solutions”&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href="https://buff.ly/2A8uR4M" target="_blank"&gt;How product managers and engineers at Asana develop great relationships&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;_You can find all my shares on my &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/markjacobsen.net" target="_blank"&gt;Facebook Page&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Addicted to Your iPhone? You’re Not Alone – The Atlantic</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/10/addicted-to-your-iphone-youre-not-alone-the-atlantic/</link><pubDate>Wed, 25 Oct 2017 11:03:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/10/addicted-to-your-iphone-youre-not-alone-the-atlantic/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://buff.ly/2xmiKPI" target="_blank"&gt;Addicted to Your iPhone? You’re Not Alone – The Atlantic&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;_You can find all my shares on my &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/markjacobsen.net" target="_blank"&gt;Facebook Page&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>Americans Are Retiring Later, Dying Sooner and Sicker In-Between</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/10/americans-are-retiring-later-dying-sooner-and-sicker-in-between/</link><pubDate>Tue, 24 Oct 2017 16:14:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/10/americans-are-retiring-later-dying-sooner-and-sicker-in-between/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;Interesting…&lt;br&gt;
&lt;a href="https://buff.ly/2ldDxTV" target="_blank"&gt;Americans Are Retiring Later, Dying Sooner and Sicker In-Between&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;_You can find all my shares on my &lt;a href="https://www.facebook.com/markjacobsen.net" target="_blank"&gt;Facebook Page&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item><item><title>The Best Ways to Tell the Hard Truth at Work</title><link>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/10/the-best-ways-to-tell-the-hard-truth-at-work/</link><pubDate>Thu, 12 Oct 2017 11:03:00 +0000</pubDate><guid>https://test.markjacobsen.net/2017/10/the-best-ways-to-tell-the-hard-truth-at-work/</guid><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="https://buff.ly/2yc4c98" target="_blank"&gt;The Best Ways to Tell the Hard Truth at Work&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;_You can find all my shares on my &lt;a href="http://ift.tt/2fijnG7" target="_blank"&gt;Facebook Page&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description></item></channel></rss>